SO, WHY SHOULD YOU TREAT YOURSELF?
Tattoos, at least good tattoos, can be expensive. Treat yourself! It’s understandable trying to justify getting yourself a new tattoo. You may feel guilty spending that kind of money on yourself, but you shouldn’t. A tattoo isn’t something you should get buyer’s remorse over, (mainly because you can’t return it.) Hopefully, we can help you, through reasoning, to not feel that way and to KNOW why you deserve a new tattoo!
Believe it or not, but there are many people out there that have a really hard time spending money on themselves. They’re not greedy, they usually are the type of person that spends their money on others. However, when it comes to themselves, even buying themself new shoes may be difficult for them to justify, regardless on how badly they may need them. That mindset is often linked to being a co-dependent, but that’s a whole other article.
Fortunately, there are some ways you can get around these feelings and to help you move past it so that you can enjoy the good things in life, such as a new tattoo.
- Take the Stuart Smalley™ approach! Tell yourself that you’re “good enough, smart enough and gosh darn it, people like you.”
- Take mental stock on what you’ve done for yourself lately. Treating yourself to things you want is psychologically important to see and enjoy the fruits of your labor from the work you do for a living.
- Doing something you love can be a stress reliever and helps aid in overcoming depression.
- Use it as a means to celebrate a recent accomplishment such as a job promotion/raise/bonus, a new baby, etc.
- Treat yourself by reaching a new milestone health related, such as losing weight, quitting or cutting back on drinking or smoking, you ran 5 miles for the first time, etc. Doing things for yourself for these achievements is a great motivator and can help keep you on track for further accomplishments!
- Celebrate a strengthened relationship such as getting married/engaged or to commemorate a longterm friendship. Matching tattoos are not considered tacky for most cases and are a fun way to celebrate such things.
- Get tattooed to celebrate and commemorate an event. A good example of this is when the original cast of the fellowship for LoTR all got matching tattoos for the grand adventure and experience they all shared. Perhaps you and a friend climbed Mt Everest together, celebrate that with a tattoo of the peak with the date (and probably a beer)!
- You just need something new that’s just for you. Sometimes something new in your life is a great way to give yourself a boost! Occasionally that little boost is just what any of us needs to help us leap forward.
- Maybe you’ve been thinking about a memorial tattoo for a while now. There’s not better time than the present to treat yourself by honoring another person or even a pet.
- Celebrate your heritage! A very popular tattoo to get is something that celebrates your roots. A family crest. Celtic knot work. Intricate Norse tattoos. Your native countries flag.
- You’re in a rut and a new tattoo may help you get out of that funk. Getting that fresh tattoo may motivate you to go out and enjoy the night life, giving you a solid reason to show off the new art! This way, you treat yourself double! Not a bad thing!
There are many reasons out there to treat yourself. If you have the means, don’t deny yourself a little something for YOU now and then. There’s nothing wrong with it, and YOU deserve it.